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After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.” The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. “What’s wrong, are you well?” she asked. My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. “I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.” She thought about it for a moment, and then said, “I would like that very much.” That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the d...

I will share with you a story which shows the clever decision of a youth on how to live this life. This story is only an example. There was a country long time ago where the people would change a king every year. The person who would become the king had to agree to a contract that he will be sent to an island after his one year of being a king. So, one king finished his term and it was time for him to go to the island and live there. The people dressed him up in expensive clothes and put him on an elephant and took him around the cities to say goodbye to all the people. This was the moment of sadness for all the kings who ruled for one year. After saying goodbye, the people took the king with a boat to the remote island and left him there. On their way back, they discovered a ship that had sunk just recently. They saw a young man who survived by holding on to a floating piece of wood. As they needed a new king, they picked up the young man and took him to their country. They requeste...

ہمارے قریب ہی ایک گھرانہ رہتا ہے۔ والد کی عمر 60‘ 65 سال کے قریب ہے۔ لیکن ان کے چہرے پر خوشحالی کے آثار نہیں ہیں بلکہ پریشانی اور ویرانی ٹپکتی رہتی ہے۔ معاشی لحاظ سے بھی کوئی مسئلہ نہیں ہے۔ مگر اس کے باوجود ان کے گھر میں ہر وقت دنگا فساد رہتاہے۔باپ اور بیٹا ہر وقت آپس میں لڑتے جھگڑتے رہتے ہیں اور لڑائی کی بظاہر وجہ بھی سمجھ نہیں آتی ۔ باپ اور بیٹا ایک دوسرے کو بہت زیادہ گالیاں دیتے ہیں۔ ایک دن والد روتا ہوا آیا ‘ انتہائی دکھ کے لہجے میں روتے ہوئے شکایت کی کہ آج بیٹے نے انتہا کر دی ہے۔ پہلے تو بیٹا مجھے گالیاں دیتا تھا لیکن آج نے مجھے جوتا اتار کر مارا ہے۔ سب لوگ اکٹھے ہوگئے۔ بیٹے کو بلایا گیا ‘ ایک بزرگ جو قریب ہی رہتے ہیں اور اس خاندان کو عرصہ دراز سے جانتے ہیں اور اس لڑکے کے دادا کو بھی جانتے ہیں ،وہ بلا کر بیٹے کو نصیحت کرنے لگے کہ والد کا مقام بہت اونچا ہے۔ جس نے بھی والد کو مارا ہے وہ ہمیشہ ذلیل و خوار ہوا ہے۔ دنیا میں بھی اور آخرت میں بھی رسوائی ملتی ہے۔ جب یہ بزرگ بیٹے کو نصیحت کر رہے تھے بجائے بیٹے کے والد نے رونا شروع کر دیا اور روتے روتے ہچکی بندھ گئی اور بار بار یہ...

There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend. One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she could see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her, “now that you can see the world, will you marry me?” The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend was blind too, and refused to marry him. Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying: “Just take care of my eyes dear.” This is how human brain changes when the status changed. Only few remember what life was before, and who’s always been there even in the most painful situations. Life Is A Gift Today before you think of saying an unkind word– think of someone who can’t speak. Before you complain about the taste of your food– think of someone who has nothing to eat. Before you...

Allah (Glory and Greatness be to Him) says in Hadith al-Qudsi: I swear by My Glory and power that if a (child who is) disobedient to his parents comes to me with all the good deeds of all the prophets, I will not accept them from him. Although our existence is from Allah (Glory and Greatness be to Him), it is our parents who are the means of giving us life. We are an offshoot of their existence and a fruit of the garden of their unparalleled affection, training, love and sentiments. When the forgetful human being grows up to become big and strong and comes to acquire a certain credibility (in life), he forgets the period wherein he was weak and lacking in strength. He disregards the exhaustive efforts of his parents; what ingratitude could be worse than this? Humanity and ethics demand that we safeguard these two jewels (our mother and father) - by exhibiting goodness towards them while they are alive, and by means of charity and goodly remembrance after their death. Our liv...

Zindagi hamain bohat kuchh sikhati hai, ab yeh hum pe hai k hum apni zindagi ke experiences se seekhi hui baaton ko kitna yaad rakhtay hain aor kitna us pe amal kartay hain. Aksar log flexible tabiyat ke hotay hain, jo life mein bohat sari important baatein seekhty to hain, lakin thori der ke baad, waqt ke sath sath, sab kuchh bhool jaty hain, un dosto pe waqti tor pe to quotes or dusri achhi achhi batein to bohat jaldi asar karti hain, lakin zyada der tak woh un baaton ke asar ko zehn me nahi rakh paaty. Un dosto ko chahye ke apne zehn ki halki phulki training karty raha karein, aor achhi achhi motivational urdu quotes daily parha karein. Aksar hum facebook pe bohat sari, pyari pyari, urdu quotes parhtay hain, jo hamain bohat inspire karti hain, hamain zindagi me kuchh karnay ka jazba deti hain, aisi baatein parhny ke bad dil karta hai k banda aisi aisi aor quotations parhy aor khud ko aor motivate karay, lakin phir sath hi hum dubra se Facebook ki dunya me gum ho jaty hain. Fac...